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FOR CAPABLE WOMEN WHO HOLD IT ALL TOGETHER
You can look fine and still feel like you're disappearing.
Women who appear functional and are privately exhausted.
Women who have been easy to live with for so long they've lost track of who they actually are underneath all the managing.
Women whose early survival strategies, compliance, people-pleasing, over-functioning, are now costing them.
You hold everything together
You know the pattern
It still pulls you back
Loretta Davie, coach for women who are tired of over functioning and losing themselves.
"Finally starting to feel like me again."
REBECCA · SIGNATURE 1:1
Approach | Transformational Coaching · Event Havening · Trauma Informed · Nervous System Resolution
SOUND FAMILIAR
You hold it together. It does not feel together.
You are the one people rely on. You keep going. You keep managing. Underneath, you are tired, resentful, and losing touch with yourself.
WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE
You seem calm, capable, and fine. Most people would not know how much it takes.
WHAT IS HAPPENING UNDERNEATH
You can see the response coming and still can't stop it. Over-explaining, shrinking, taking on what isn't yours.
You're exhausted in a way that a holiday doesn't fix. Competent on the outside, quietly disappearing on the inside.
WHAT THIS WORK DOES
We work where the pattern actually lives so the shift shows up in real life, not just insight.
WHAT YOU ACTUALLY WANT
Not to cope better. To feel different.
MORE SPACE
Say no without guilt.
MORE SELF TRUST
Stop checking everyone else before you check yourself.
MORE STEADINESS
Stay grounded in hard conversations.
MORE OF YOU
Come back to the part of you that has been missing.
"When I found Loretta, I was lost. She helped me find the courage to move forward, focus on what I could control, and rebuild. I've felt supported every step of the way. I'm finally starting to feel like me again."
Rebecca · The Shift
ABOUT LORETTA
I know this pattern from the inside.
I help exhausted, capable women stop abandoning themselves and live from choice instead of survival.
I know what changes when your nervous system no longer believes it has to survive by self abandonment.
Based in Gloucestershire. Working via Zoom and in person across Gloucestershire, Worcestershire, and Herefordshire.
Certified Paseda360 Advanced Practitioner
Transformational Life Coach
Trained in Event Havening
WORK WITH ME
Root level resolution.
Not more coping strategies.
Every offer works at the same level. The depth depends on where you are.
3 WEEK INTENSIVE · PREMIUM
The Shift
You know the pattern. It still pulls you back. Four sessions including Event Havening.
Focused support for women who want a clear turning point.
3 MONTH PROGRAMME· PREMIUM
The Integration
For women who want support while new ways of being take root. Eight sessions over three months.
For steadier change that has room to settle in.
SIX MONTH PAID COMMUNITY
COMING SOON - JUNE 2026
The Threshold Moment
For women who know something needs to change but aren't quite ready for 1:1 work yet. Six months of support, conversation, and tools to help you start moving, at a pace that works for you.
£497
or £92.50 a month for six months
WHAT CLIENTS SAY
From the women
who have done this work.
"When I found Loretta, I was lost. She helped me find the courage to move forward, focus on what I could control, and rebuild. I'm finally starting to feel like me again."
Rebecca · The Shift
"Loretta is a voice of clarity and reason. She helped me through a period of serious stress and gave me tools I still use in every area of life."
Google Review · 5 Stars
"She helped me get things in order, reminded me of my own capabilities, and taught me how to be resilient. She helped me learn to enjoy the busy life that had become overwhelming."
Victoria · The Shift
READY TO TALK
You've managed this long enough.
The Connection Call is 30 minutes, free, and completely without obligation. We'll talk about what's happening for you and whether this work is the right fit.
If it isn't, I'll tell you that honestly.
Or reach out directly · hello@loretta-davie.co.uk · WhatsApp 07822 013174
