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On the outside, your life works.
Inside is a different story.
You're capable, self-aware, and you know your patterns inside out and when the pressure rises, the old responses run anyway. This work changes that. Not by helping you manage yourself better. By resolving what's running underneath.
"Finally starting to feel like me again."
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APPROACH
TRANSFORMATIONAL COACHING
EVENT HAVENING
TRAUMA-INFORMED METHODS
NERVOUS STSTEM RESOLUTION
"When I found Loretta, I was lost. She helped me find the courage to move forward, focus on what I could control, and rebuild. I've felt supported every step of the way. I'm finally starting to feel like me again."
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SOUND FAMILIAR
You manage everything beautifully. Except the part that exhausts you.
From the outside, your life looks organised and functional. You show up. You hold things together. You're the capable one.
Inside, it's heavier than it looks, you know the patterns, you can name them while they're happening and when the pressure rises, the old responses run anyway.
The over-explaining. The backing down. The taking on too much. The keeping yourself small so the room stays comfortable.
That's not a character flaw. It's a nervous system response that made sense once and hasn't had reason to update. Understanding it hasn't been enough to change it. That's what this work is for.
WHAT YOU ACTUALLY WANT
Not to cope better. To stop needing to.
To say what you think without spending the next three days managing how it landed
To feel like yourself in the room, not the version of you quietly monitoring everyone else
To make a decision and move on, without the loop of second-guessing that follows you everywhere
To stop when you've given enough, without the guilt that makes you give more anyway
To walk into a difficult conversation without dreading it for a week beforehand
To feel steady when something goes wrong, instead of it pulling the floor out
None of that is too much to ask. It's what life looks like when the old survival responses stop running it.
WORK WITH ME
From one focused session to three months of real change.
Every offer is built around the same thing: helping you move from coping to choosing. The depth depends on what you're dealing with.
3 WEEK INTENSIVE · PREMIUM
The Shift
For women who understand their patterns but whose nervous system still defaults to the old ones. Four sessions including Event Havening for root level resolution.
4 Sessions
Event Havening
Voice note support
3 MONTH PROGRAMME· PREMIUM
The Integration
For women who have done the breakthrough work and want sustained support to build a life that doesn't require them to brace for it. Eight sessions over three months.
8 Sessions
Weekly then fortnightly
Voice note support
FIND OUT MORE
SINGLE SESSION · 60 MINUTES
The Power Hour
One specific problem. One focused session. Clarity and a clear next step. A good starting point if you're not sure whether deeper work is right for you.
Not sure where to start? Let's talk.
WHAT CLIENTS SAY
"Loretta is a voice of clarity and reason. She helped me through a period of serious stress and gave me tools I still use in every area of life. I cannot recommend her enough, especially for women running their own businesses."
GOOGLE REVIEW · 5 STARS
"She helped me get things in order, reminded me of my own capabilities, and taught me how to be resilient. Above all she helped me learn to enjoy the busy life that had become overwhelming."
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ABOUT LORETTA
I know this work from the inside.
I work with women whose early experience taught them that being easy to live with was safer than being honest. That keeping the peace was worth the cost. That their own needs could wait.
I know that pattern because I lived it and I know what changes when the nervous system finally gets the message that it's safe to respond differently.
I'm based in the south west of England and work with clients via Zoom and in person across Gloucestershire, Worcestershire, and Herefordshire.
Certified Paseda360 Advanced Practitioner Transformational Life Coach
Trauma informed
FREE RESOURCE
The Pause Practice
A short, practical guide for the moment before the old response takes over. Something to reach for when you can feel it coming and want to choose differently.
For women who want to start somewhere before they're ready to go deeper.
No cost No Catch
READY TO TALK
You've been managing this long enough.
The Connection Call is 30 minutes, free, and completely without obligation. We'll talk about what's happening for you and whether this work is the right fit.
If it isn't, I'll tell you that honestly.
Or reach out directly · hello@loretta-davie.co.uk · WhatsApp 07822 013174
